Monday, September 01, 2008

A long long weekend

We've been full of house guests this week. It's been good, but busy. Jess was in from Wales, my friend Jen needed a place to crash and a little bit of help moving, and we had dinner with my parents both with Jess and E&R with toddler S. It was a crazy long weekend. It was fun, but I'm glad the house guests and plans are coming to an end, though. It's fun to have them, but it's always fun to get the house back.

Tomorrow is our last home study visit. I'm desperately trying to make the house seem as clean as possible. It's clean enough, but I kind of want it to be even cleaner. I also want our yard to look better, but I suck at stuff like that. I'm going to try to force myself to work on it later today as it cools down. I'm 2/3 done with the book for the potential birth parents, and 2/3 done with the Dear Birth Mother letter. I'm feeling pretty good about all that I accomplished (of course, with the help of T). Our home study will be complete soon, and we will be a waiting family.

Kinda freaky. But good.

There is a waiting family support group meeting in the middle of September that I'll want to go to. I think if we're not officially in that stage by that date, we'll be only a week or two away from it.

Then it's going to be time to work on our search. We're going to contract with another agency to do a national search in addition to the local searches that our agency does.

Things are finally coming together.

4 comments:

Almamay said...

Oh lovely, I hope it all goes well for your last home study. I'm so nervous on your behalf. I'm sending you lots and lots of love for what ever it is that they want to put you through.

Trace said...

The social worker doesn't care about your yard or how clean your house is. It's just to make sure you live in a safe environment for a baby (smoke detectors, fire extinguisher, etc.). Good luck!

Natalie said...

Oh good!! I'm so glad things are coming together! So soon now this stage will be done. :)

Hopeful Mother said...

I'm excited for you to finally become a "waiting" family, even though we know you have been really waiting forever! It's all coming together!