Thursday, September 06, 2007

waiting, waiting and more waiting

I decided that I can't go back to this job next week. This morning, I was given a hand written email to send. I typed it up, sent it and printed it out as usual. Then the woman made some 'corrections' to the email, and I informed her that it had already been sent. This woman went off on me. Why did I send it without her approval? I told her I thought that she just wanted me to just type it and send it out. I didn't realize she wanted to approve it. She told me that I'm not there to think and what I think is not important. I am only there to do what she tells me to do.

Well, no one talks to me like that. I told her she couldn't speak to me that way. I was so angry I was shaking. But right then and there I knew I could not tolerate it there for another week. So, I let the temp agency know I was not willing to come back. I explained the situation to the woman there, and she seemed really grateful. So now I'm on the lookout for a new temp job. I have a couple possibilities pending, but nothing definitive yet.

See, I can't even keep a temp job.

In cycle news, I have none. Still no positive OPKs. Still no cm. My temp is still low, though, so I must not have ovulated yet. I'm kinda confused. Maybe ovulation is just delayed. I'm hoping for a positive OPK tomorrow, but who knows.


My Reality said...

I don't blame you for leaving. What a psycho!

I hope the OPK's change for you soon. Can your RE monitor you at all?

Erin said...

Holy crap! I can't believe you're even going back tomorrow. I guess you want to make nice with the agency, but what the hell?

Please don't think of this as not being able to "keep a temp job" this lady is a lazy asshole!

Good riddance! Maybe getting away from her handwritten notes will help move your cycle along!

Artblog said...

Good for you, sounds like a right bitch! Its the last thing you need when cycling!

Good luck on finding something new soon. X

ultimatejourney said...

I'm appalled that someone would say such a thing. What a world we live in! I'm glad you're getting the hell out of there.

I've heard that Cl0mid sometimes delays ovulation for people with shorter cycles. I hope the fertility signs show up soon.

Good luck finding a better work environment. That temp "job" sounded insane.

Amy & Ryan said...

I just found your blog and can realate to your situation. I'm currently 4 and 1/2 weeks pregnant from dIUI. I wish you luck in your journey. It took us 9 IUI's to get here, so don't get frustrated and throw in the towel. My DH is constantly rubbing my belly now and very protective of me. I truely hope you don't have to go 9 IUI's. I don't write about my dIUI on my blog, because family reads it. If you ever want to talk email me at

Amy :)

dmarie said...

Good for you! And you are not to blame for her rude behavior, so it has nothing to do with you not being able to keep a temp job.

Hope you get a positive soon!

mary ellen said...

What a nutcase! I wouldn't go back at all.

I hope that you get that positive OPK soon!

LIW (Lady In Waiting) said...

This job limbo thing really sucks!!! I am sorry that you already had a bad experience. But good for you for standing up for yourself and getting out of there.


Nearlydawn said...

Oh man, it sucks to have a nut yell at you like they are superior! Ugh!

I'm glad you are getting out of there though. I wouldn't want any of her craziness rubbing off on you!

Hope you find the perfect temp/part time/full time job for you soon!

Sarah said...

what a total effing bitch! it really pisses me off to hear of a supervisor talking to anyone that way. so glad the temp agency understands. hope you get something better soon.