A woman who is 7 months pregnant told me today that I was "lucky" to not be able to be pregnant and give birth. Happily, at this point I mostly just get annoyed at comments like that. I simply told her that being an adoptive parent has its own distinct difficulties.
But I'm still thinking about it and am still annoyed. People have no idea.
That being said, I am lucky. But not for the reasons she thinks I am.