Took a test this morning. Of course, it was negative.
I'm not sure how much longer I can keep doing this. We will find a new donor, probably do three rounds of IUI with injectibles, and then I don't know what. We found that one of the insurance options for T covers a total of 6 IUIs with ovulation induction (lifetime). So, at least we can do a couple of those on T's new insurance policy.
Should I find a new job to get coverage for IVF? That could work. Or should we move forward with one of our adoption options. Honestly, I think we will probably do both.
Meanwhile, we are again, just sad.
Life as an adoptive family.
My Story
- Rachel
- 4 miscarriages, 3 failed IVFs with PGD, 2 different sperm donors, 1 diagnosis of balanced translocation. Now we are the proud parents of a boy via domestic infant semi-open adoption. We had a failed match for kid #2 and are now matched again.
17 comments:
I'm so very sorry. Hugs from London.
I'm mad and sad for both of you.
Yes, mad and sad both here too.
I am so very sorry Rachel....
Saying I'm sorry is an understatement. When I read your post, all I could think was "FUCK!!". It is so unfair.
It's not fair. I'm so sorry. (Also- I heard that Kinkos has IVF coverage???)
I'm so sorry, Rachel.
I'm so sorry, honey.
Rachel, I'm so sorry. ((Hugs))
Rachel, I'm so sorry! I feel sad with you.
I'm so sorry. Why don't you begin researching adoption and embryo adoption? It is hard to do adoption at the same time you do fertility. Mostly because private domestic adoption is expensive and some agencies don't like you to do both. For example, I know Adoptions From Heart makes you sign something.
I'm so sorry Rachel.
Erica
I am so, so sorry hon.
Please try to nurture yourself somehow. Maybe you need a little time to heal before you can make a major decision.....
I am here for you.
XOXO
I am sorry. It just really sucks.
I'm sorry. I'm sending hugs your way.
I am really sorry, but just wanted to try and give you some hope,
It took me 8 cycles of IUI with clomid before I concieved my son, so don't give up-(it probably doesn't help but after 6 iui's the doctor changed our donor because he thought it might be an egg sperm incompatibility).
So sorry. This stuff sucks.
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