tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26805135.post4676575161782487080..comments2023-05-01T11:01:19.417-05:00Comments on Henry Street: ComfortRachelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02996214314229242361noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26805135.post-79444819279937705032008-01-04T17:10:00.000-05:002008-01-04T17:10:00.000-05:00I came here from Mel's blog, and I am so, so sorry...I came here from Mel's blog, and I am so, so sorry. No, there is NO comfort in "just knowing you're able to get pregnant again." And there's no comfort in knowing what went wrong. The fact is, you lost all those children, and each loss does not bring you a step closer to pregnancy; it brings you back to the beginning.<BR/><BR/>I so hope you will have a child in your arms soon.Annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08514262423005456861noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26805135.post-24284630518861503642007-12-31T14:36:00.000-05:002007-12-31T14:36:00.000-05:00It sucks big time and I'm so sorry.It sucks big time and I'm so sorry.Samanthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02799401502134619497noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26805135.post-78822802643650944942007-12-31T08:14:00.000-05:002007-12-31T08:14:00.000-05:00Rachel, I am so sorry I have not been over here so...Rachel, I am so sorry I have not been over here sooner to check on you--I am so very sorry for this heartache. I am hoping so very much that this fresh start in the new year will bring you so much joy. You and your husband are in my prayers.JJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18027548058304720360noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26805135.post-84390640595602637102007-12-30T10:52:00.000-05:002007-12-30T10:52:00.000-05:00It does suck big time and I am very sorry.It does suck big time and I am very sorry.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13194940947748022677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26805135.post-84007716607883243532007-12-30T06:59:00.000-05:002007-12-30T06:59:00.000-05:00This is so sucky and unbelievably hard. I AM SO SO...This is so sucky and unbelievably hard. I AM SO SORRY! I wish so much that this wasn't happening to you. You have every reason to hurt and honestly you don't need to look at any bright side-you just need to heal however is best for you!Somewhat Ordinaryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09701338805685025735noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26805135.post-8255962577206944072007-12-30T00:24:00.000-05:002007-12-30T00:24:00.000-05:00It sucks and I'm so very sorry. People do say cra...It sucks and I'm so very sorry. People do say crappy things when trying to provide comfort. My families favorite was, "at least you can get pg." Except that ignored how tough it really was to get there (15 cycles the first time, 18 more the second). At least meant nothing when it took so long to get there and left so quickly. As i'm sure you understand.<BR/><BR/>I hope you heal soon.SarahSewshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16942500174012557069noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26805135.post-76938183779661803622007-12-30T00:09:00.000-05:002007-12-30T00:09:00.000-05:00I couldn't have possibly wanted something more tha...I couldn't have possibly wanted something more than for this to have worked out for you. My heart is breaking for you. It does not get easier...in fact, I think it is harder each and every time. I know it doesn't help, but I truly do understand where you are right now and I'm just so so sorry. And I know having to wait so long to try again just adds insult to injury. Please take this time to help your heart heal. You and T are in my thoughts and prayers.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26805135.post-43808007707001618932007-12-29T19:02:00.000-05:002007-12-29T19:02:00.000-05:00This m/c sucks, no 2 ways about. It's horrible an...This m/c sucks, no 2 ways about. It's horrible and unfair and so so sad. I'm sorry you're going through this at all, let alone for the 4th time, let alone after all the shit you've been through just to get pg in the first place.<BR/><BR/>I don't know either why people have to say such stupid stuff. I guess it's to make themselves feel better.Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11342071625881436631noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26805135.post-74252173541017780072007-12-29T09:02:00.000-05:002007-12-29T09:02:00.000-05:00It does suck. It is hell, and I am so sorry that y...It does suck. It is hell, and I am so sorry that you are going through this again. <BR/>People who use those same old cliches and try to make you feel better don't realize that there is nothing that can make you feel better when you suffer a pregnancy loss. They don't realize that what they are saying hurts too. There is absolutely no bright side to miscarriage.<BR/><BR/>((hugs))Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14836457802063761425noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26805135.post-30267970351767172332007-12-29T04:34:00.000-05:002007-12-29T04:34:00.000-05:00Beautifully expressed. Your words struck a chord ...Beautifully expressed. Your words struck a chord with me. Ultimate Journey said it far better than I could have. <BR/><BR/>People are afraid of pain and want to diminish what you are going through to make it safe for them. <BR/><BR/>Sadly, my journey has been a long one and I've found infertiles can be just as insensitive as fertiles. Sometimes they can be even more so because they think they know the answers to your problems. <BR/><BR/>All I can say is that I'm so very, very sorry. xAlmamayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07206790533323008540noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26805135.post-39661691849341897342007-12-28T21:19:00.000-05:002007-12-28T21:19:00.000-05:00A loss is a loss, it doesn't matter why. It still...A loss is a loss, it doesn't matter why. It still hurts.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26805135.post-79377550583449964522007-12-28T21:02:00.000-05:002007-12-28T21:02:00.000-05:00It is unbelievably far beyond just sucking. I am v...It is unbelievably far beyond just sucking. I am very sorry, and also sorry that people (especially those who have had fertility problems of their own) are providing the opposite of comfort. Unfortunately, a lot of people are very uncomfortable with pain and inadvertently make things worse by trying to look on the bright side. The fact is, you have every reason to feel sad and angry, and people should acknowledge that. If anything, I would think this loss is harder given all you've been through.<BR/><BR/>I'm truly sorry about all of it, including the long waiting period for the next IUI.<BR/><BR/>If there's anything at all I can do, please don't hesitate to let me know.ultimatejourneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01385256618267945461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26805135.post-25633693837512632492007-12-28T18:25:00.000-05:002007-12-28T18:25:00.000-05:00It really does suck and I am very sorry. AND it do...It really does suck and I am very sorry. AND it double sucks that you have to wait so long to have another IUI.Ellie's Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06372312560375152975noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26805135.post-9634027084150662982007-12-28T17:50:00.000-05:002007-12-28T17:50:00.000-05:00I have been checking in on you and was so sad to h...I have been checking in on you and was so sad to hear your news. I have been pregnant 3 times in the last 2.5 years and can completely understand that part of your pain. You are strong to keep striving for a child and I wish you the absolute best as you continue down your path...nobody deserves this.CLHKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11946605483235202697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26805135.post-54284041554922557282007-12-28T15:56:00.000-05:002007-12-28T15:56:00.000-05:00It so sucks and I am so so sorry. More then one lo...It so sucks and I am so so sorry. <BR/>More then one loss sucks. each one sucks more. It does NOT get easier or better or even get you "closer" <BR/>It.just.sucks.Johttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01781454327470293464noreply@blogger.com