tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26805135.post1104868392671793893..comments2023-05-01T11:01:19.417-05:00Comments on Henry Street: Lonely againRachelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02996214314229242361noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26805135.post-42625589732477681032008-07-20T09:30:00.000-05:002008-07-20T09:30:00.000-05:00Maybe this is something you've already done or con...Maybe this is something you've already done or considered and rejected, but have you thought of emailing Mel and having her post something on <A HREF="http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.com/2007/08/faq-about-lost-and-found.html" REL="nofollow"> Lost and Found</A>? (her email is way down at the bottom of the post).<BR/><BR/>Though this is probably not especially helpful, I sometimes feel a little bit the same way. I've found almost no-one in a situation all that similar to mine -- late loss/twin loss + very high risk of recurrence + surrogacy. I've pretty much given up looking for that and concentrate on people who share one or two aspects of my experience.niobehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10685766216611639434noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26805135.post-17977910138425514002008-07-19T17:07:00.000-05:002008-07-19T17:07:00.000-05:00Oh Lovely, I can really, really relate to your pos...Oh Lovely, I can really, really relate to your post. I understand how hard it is to feel like you are going backwards. I don't have any answers and if you find any please share. I am however sending you love.Almamayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07206790533323008540noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26805135.post-14930484964536363302008-07-19T07:53:00.000-05:002008-07-19T07:53:00.000-05:00I so wish I had something comforting to say . . . ...I so wish I had something comforting to say . . . but I know that the assurances that your turn will come don't mean all that much until it does.<BR/><BR/>Just know that you're in my thoughts . . . <BR/><BR/>As for IRL groups . . . I never did find one that worked for me but it can't hurt to check RESOLVE . . . they may have one in your area and ask the agency too. Ours just started a waiting families group.beaglehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17627886826215379414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26805135.post-53872987283509886562008-07-18T21:35:00.000-05:002008-07-18T21:35:00.000-05:00*hugs*Sometimes I feel the same way about the IF a...*hugs*<BR/><BR/>Sometimes I feel the same way about the IF and the stillbirth. I'm finding some people online who deal with both, but most of the other stillbirth moms either already had a kid or are just going to TTC for another one (and presumably get one).<BR/><BR/>To have as many losses as you have had just sucks so freakin' much. I'm sorry you can't find others who share the same type of experiences... I know how it feels to really want someone who *understands*... who hasn't left you behind yet, and who has gone through the same kind of hell that you have. :(Nataliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16003334714597731355noreply@blogger.com